The first question you need to ask yourself is “Why are you waiting 90 days? In reality, you’re holding out because you don’t want to be viewed as easy and you think that this is going to make a man a value you more.
This assumption is how many women end up devastated.Even if he does decide to wait the 90 days to sleep with you, what makes you think that he isn’t sleeping with other women during those 90 days?Many men find it difficult to remain faithful to a woman that they are sleeping with, so what makes you think he’s going to remain faithful to a woman who isn’t giving him any sex?“Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man” was a very popular relationship advice book.In fact, it has become so popular that they have adapted a movie and a sequel based on the book.
What I’ve noticed is that most women that read the book seem to always talk about the “90 day rule” and implement it into their dating routine.If you’re not familiar with the 90 day rule, it was a recommendation made in this book that suggests that women should wait 90 days before becoming sexually intimate with a man she is dating or involved with.The premise behind this is that men don’t value women who sleep with them too soon after meeting them.There’s this belief that if you sleep with us during the first week or the first month that you have permanently ruined your chances of a man taking you seriously.I was really astonished by how many women believed this and put this theory into practice.However, the results of following this 90 day rule were mixed and this can easily be attributed to this practice not being well thought out. Do you think that holding out on sex for 90 days is the key to earning a man’s respect?