Ever since I was 4 years old I had these dreams about flying…”.Whether you’re new to speed dating or speed dating enthusiast, there’s one thing everyone knows: you have very little time to meet a potential suitor. You can find out a lot about a man with this simple question. With this question you’ll find out a little bit about his past, and find out whether he’s a serious relationship kind of guy or a player.3. If you’re not into the idea of kids, then this will be a deal breaker for you. Does he wants to relax on the sandy shores of Jamaica, or speed down the highest mountains of Denver? Is there anything in particular you’re passionate about? Just like the movies question, knowing his favorite music can tell you whether he’s laid back or prefers a more energetic style.26. This is important- you need to know whether he’s shallow and only dates women for their looks, or if he has something important in mind when seeking a gal- perhaps an engaging personality or a college degree.27. A man who loves to pick up a good book and just relax is a major turn on for some women, and you can surely tell a lot about a man’s personality with this simple question.28. This is always a fun question, and the answer may really shock you- or leave you rolling on the floor with laughter.
He might be unemployed, but he could be going to college for his degree.7. So, we can obviously see why this might be an important question. If you could have dinner with a famous person, who would it be? Hey, he could secretly dream of being a magician and has the ability to perform some wild tricks, or maybe he can walk on his hands. Just ask it casually something during the conversation.
If you’re 21 and he’s 45, you might want to wait till the next guy comes to your table before things get too serious.8. Is he a native of the land, or has he recently moved (maybe from some exotic state or country? Does he want to gawk at Pamela Anderson over dinner, or dive into the intelligent mind of Albert Einstein? You might find out he’s got a really cool classic car he’d love to show you off in! What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?
With this question you’ll find out if he’s laid back or loves to be busy and energetic.18. Your friends know you best, so this is obviously a great question to find out what kinda guy he is.19. Really just a fun question to get to know the guy.20. Everyone has one- see how wild, or subtle, his dream career is.21. After all, who wants to be with someone who is always hum and drum?
Just got off the phone with one of my private coaching clients who is getting prepped for a speed dating event tonight. If you ask another question and do not share, it will literally suck any spark out of her.
I typically practice conversation and leadership skills with guys to help them be prepped before they go on dates or a to events.
My client is kind of goofy so I wanted to find him some fun, quirky questions he could ask at the event.
It’s always great to have some conversation ideas in your back pocket, just in case you get stuck.
I stumbled on this great article a site called NY Easy Dates, that gave 10 Quirky Questions To Ask When Speed Dating. NOTE: Once you ask one of these questions and a woman responds, YOU MUST do the following: – Let her know she’s been heard.
(That I know can also be used on dates) I think they are awesome and wanted to share them. For now, you can simply repeat back what she has said to you.
Would LOVE if you could add your own in the comments section below.
10 quirky questions to help you both enjoy your short time together, and to help your date remember you when it comes to making selections: The reason why these questions are so good, is because they immediately trigger a woman’s primal brain.