But I do know that if you ask people about something you suspect or are concerned about, a lot of them will be truthful with you. Does he make excuses why he can’t give you a home number? You might try calling him late at night some time with a problem. If he answers quickly and talks to you, then he probably is alone. Now of course if a guy has a wife who works a night shift, he can get away with this. Does he only meet you on a certain day of the week?
” Some of the obvious clues are as follows: 1) He always wants to meet at your place, or around your place. Single guys usually want to take you to their place to put the moves on you. (Either he has a dirty smelly small cheap apartment in the ghetto, or he is living with someone he doesn’t want you to know about.) Hmmm, is he married? If he is totally resistive then you might suggest a restaurant in his neighborhood. He never wants to meet around where he lives or works for fear that he might be seen. So it might be a good move to ask to see his apartment. Or try hanging out in his neighborhood for a day or evening. If you are the kind of woman that always has the guy pick you up and take you places, he might be able to get away with it for a long while. So there is another problem out there that I am getting in emails from women about. People logging on to those sites know the answer to “Is he married? Of course he could say he is recently divorced, but if he keeps putting that ring back on, it won’t ever go away, will it? Actually there are sites set up for married men and women to have affairs, but those are not the problem. Single men do their own laundry and have to clean up (or get a maid). If he can’t or won’t give it to you then you know something is up. And if he does fess up, don’t ever lose your integrity and fall for a sad story of how bad his wife treats him.
Apparently there are a lot of married guys out there on the internet pretending to be single. If he says he has a maid to get around specific answers, then say you were thinking of hiring a maid and ask for her name and number. If he gets vague and can’t answer you then you know that someone is probably cooking for him. And no matter how great he makes you feel by telling you that you are the best and most wonderful woman he has ever met, remember one thing, he is a liar and a cheater.
” The problem is when men get on and other traditional services and pretend to be single. Or does he have a girlfriend or is he living with someone?
I read somewhere that it is estimated that as much as one-third of the guys on these services are married or in relationships.
How do you tell from a website profile if a guy is single or not.
Can you figure out the answer to the question “Is he married” by quickly going over a profile?
Well, I don’t really know of anyway of doing that myself. Or if he always lets it ring a lot before answering, perhaps he is going into another room.