Dating with a purpose book

The first speed-dating event took place at Peet’s Café in Beverly Hills in late 1998.

At the end of the event participants submit to the organizers a list of who they would like to provide their contact information to.If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties.Contact information cannot be traded during the initial meeting, in order to reduce pressure to accept or reject a suitor to his or her face.Dating can be fun, but going on endless dates wasting your time and money isn't fun.... especially if your goal is marriage not just hanging out.So one must have a goal...what's your pursuit? Dating can be fun, but going on endless dates wasting your time and money isn't fun....

No one benefits from going on never ending dates... we are now living in a hook up culture which even makes it harder to find love and date without a purpose...So one must have a goal...what's your pursuit? I am sure most of you want to get married, so if you have no intentions of marrying your date then don’t waste his/her time, or yours. No one benefits from going on never ending dates with someone who really has zero interest in getting to know you better. Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process of dating system whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people.Its origins are credited to Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish Ha Torah, originally as a way to help Jewish singles meet and marry.Speed Dating, as a single word, is a registered trademark of Aish Ha Torah.Speed dating, as two separate words, is often used as a generic term for similar events.