I’ve been with my fiancé for a little over 2.5 years now. We’ve lived an hour apart for our entire relationship except for the past month or so, I’m in the middle of moving in.We’d still see each other every weekend, sometimes more.Initially we had web cams, I got rid of mine, he still had his and just put it away a couple months ago (5).
He had a roommate and I just figured he used it to take pics of himself for the computer.
It bothered me because I didn’t really know, but I got over it and let it go.
I’ve spent more and more time here for the past 6 months, since we’ve got engaged, so I’ve used his computer a lot more as well.
I was messing around one day and found a ton of pornography on it.
I told him I felt bad that he was looking at these women-but I felt even worse because I was the one who looked it up in his documents on his computer-I felt I invaded his privacy-I didn’t want to be one of those crazy girlfriends/fiancés.
He felt bad and said he’d delete everything, I told him no, I know guys do that kind of stuff, and I didn’t want him to because I invaded his privacy.Well, a couple months later, again I was on his computer, found reoccurring pictures of the same girl.I can never lie to him or hide anything, he always knows when something is up, he wouldn’t leave me alone so I told him I found these pictures of this girl that he must really like, and I saw multiple ones of her-again.I told him I felt bad that he was looking at the pictures; obviously I’m not what he was looking at.I told him I wasn’t like those girls, he told me he didn’t want me to be like those girls...I told him that I didn’t doubt his love for me, but was this someone he was talking to?